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Anonymous Sex Between Men Is Not Anonymous
We Already Know Each Other Anonymous sex between men is different. We inhabit the same bodies. We have the same minds. We know each other before we even meet. Two men walk into a room, or a park, or a car, or a booth, and something already recognizes itself. There is no long negotiation required.…
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Chemsex Recovery: Relighting The Fire
Chemsex ruined my life and welded the drugs to my sexuality. Sobriety did not have to mean a dead cock. Art, music, and other men were how I got the fire back.
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Is Porn Different For Gay Men?
When I was fifteen in small-town Indiana, porn magazines were proof that other gay men existed. The modern anti-porn case was written to explain what men do to women. That theory does not travel cleanly onto two men.
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BATE FUEL Videos Is Live: 70+ Uncensored Music Videos for Men
We launched BATE FUEL Videos — a video site built so a man can watch every music video we have made, on his phone or cast to a television, without an algorithm deciding he is not allowed to see it. There are more than 70 BATE FUEL videos up now. More are coming. This is…
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Porn Addiction: Is it Real?
Porn addiction. The phrase hits hard for many men. It conjures images of endless scrolling, lost hours, strained relationships, and a heavy cloud of guilt around your cock and what makes it hard. But what if the real issue isn’t the porn itself? What if it’s the shame, disconnection, and immaturity that turns a natural…
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Sexual Integration: No Man Is Exempt
Sexual integration is not often discussed but it is one of the most high-impact pieces of masculine development. For many men, it is the oft-overlooked foundation on which everything else is built. Before discipline, presence, leadership and creativity, an integrated sexuality makes all of that way easier. If sexuality remains fragmented, performative, compulsive or shut…
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MAN UP REGIMEN: Lifestyle, Sexuality And Supplements For Men
Updated 10-13-26 Men love to share wisdom and what works with each other. We don’t necessarily give advice here, but we do share what works for us. This MAN UP Regimen is not necessarily a formal program but a collection of things that works for both me and my husband and has contributed to our…
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CAM BATING 101
So you want to get into cam bating and don’t know where to start or what to do or even where to go? You might have some questions. “What kind of equipment do I need? What if I am shy? Can I just look and not participate?” In this article, I am going to share…
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NAKED MEDITATION WITH MEN
Naked meditation among men is a powerful way to get out of the mind and fully inhabit the body.
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Age Verification And Art That Toes The Line
Is age verification necessary for art that is erotic but not necessarily pornographic? And what about art that toes the line? What do gay artists run into when they share their art and music on social media where new policies and restrictions make them feel extremely unwelcome? We didn’t give up when YouTube terminated our…
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