Category: maleness

  • Anonymous Sex Between Men Is Not Anonymous

    Anonymous Sex Between Men Is Not Anonymous

    We Already Know Each Other Anonymous sex between men is different. We inhabit the same bodies. We have the same minds. We know each other before we even meet. Two men walk into a room, or a park, or a car, or a booth, and something already recognizes itself. There is no long negotiation required.…

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  • Porn Addiction: Is it Real?

    Porn Addiction: Is it Real?

    Porn addiction. The phrase hits hard for many men. It conjures images of endless scrolling, lost hours, strained relationships, and a heavy cloud of guilt around your cock and what makes it hard. But what if the real issue isn’t the porn itself? What if it’s the shame, disconnection, and immaturity that turns a natural…

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  • Sexual Integration: No Man Is Exempt

    Sexual Integration: No Man Is Exempt

    Sexual integration is not often discussed but it is one of the most high-impact pieces of masculine development. For many men, it is the oft-overlooked foundation on which everything else is built. Before discipline, presence, leadership and creativity, an integrated sexuality makes all of that way easier. If sexuality remains fragmented, performative, compulsive or shut…

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  • MAN UP REGIMEN: Lifestyle, Sexuality And Supplements For Men

    MAN UP REGIMEN: Lifestyle, Sexuality And Supplements For Men

    Updated 10-13-26 Men love to share wisdom and what works with each other. We don’t necessarily give advice here, but we do share what works for us. This MAN UP Regimen is not necessarily a formal program but a collection of things that works for both me and my husband and has contributed to our…

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  • NAKED MEDITATION WITH MEN

    NAKED MEDITATION WITH MEN

    Naked meditation among men is a powerful way to get out of the mind and fully inhabit the body.

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  • Getting Naked On The Internet As INNER WORK

    Getting Naked On The Internet As INNER WORK

    As men who get hard for other men getting naked on the internet opens up a brotherhood most straight guys never touch. It’s raw, direct, and unapologetic. You drop the clothes, stroke your cock where other men can see, and something shifts. Shame cracks. Your body feels like yours again. Desire stops being the enemy…

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